He hua tino motuhake ngā karaihe whakapā tapawhā, kāore i te rite te āhua, hei āwhina i a koe ki te whakaatu i tō kāhua ahurei me tō tuakiri. He mea hanga ēnei karaihe whakapā ki ngā rauemi kounga teitei, ā, ka whakarite kia pai tō whakamarie me tō whai huatanga tirohanga. Nā te hoahoa āhua tapawhā, he pai ēnei karaihe whakapā mō te mau i ia rā, engari mō te whakaatu hoki i tō āhua me tō tuakiri i ngā wā rerekē.

Ahakoa kei te haere koe ki tētahi pāti, ki tētahi marena, ki tētahi hakari, ki te haere noa rānei i tō oranga o ia rā, he kōwhiringa pai rawa atu ngā karaihe whakapā tapawhā, kāore i te ōrite te āhua. Ka taea e ēnei karaihe whakapā te whakarei ake i tō tuakiri me tō ataahua, ka kanapa ake, ka ātaahua ake hoki ō kanohi.

He maha ngā tae me ngā tauira e tukuna ana e mātou kia kitea ai e koe ngā karaihe whakapā tapawhā, koretake te āhua, e tino pai ana mōu. Ahakoa he pai ki a koe ngā tae kanapa, ngā tauira āhuahanga āhuahanga, ngā tae mātotoru māmā rānei, kei a mātou ngā hua e tika ana mōu.

Hei tāpiritanga, he tino pai te uruhanga hāora o ā mātou karaihe whakapā tapawhā, kāore i te rite te āhua, e whakarite ana kia whiwhi ō kanohi i te hāora e tika ana, e whakaiti ana i te tūponotanga o te kore whakamarie, te ngenge rānei o te kanohi. He kōwhiringa tino haumaru, pono hoki ēnei karaihe whakapā, e meinga ai koe kia māia, kia whakamarie hoki i a koe e mau ana.

Ki te hiahia koe ki te whakaatu i tō tuakiri me tō wairua ahua, he mea tino pai ngā karaihe whakapā tapawhā, kāore i te ōrite te āhua. Ehara i te mea ka ātaahua ake ō kanohi anake, engari ka āwhina hoki i a koe ki te whakaatu i tō tuakiri me tō āhua ahurei.